Some people may say I am a Rags to Riches story, some may say I am the Woman-Hear Me Roar song, but I say, I am a woman who ran through snake and leech infested rice paddy fields in rural China to being a five star wealth manager with over $100 million assets under management.
Not only did I immigrate to a new county, but I immigrated away from governmental constraints, sexism and poverty. I had no running water in my home as a child, but I had dreams, and they were big ones, and I also had inspiring people in my life. I would like to be one of those people for you.
So, to that point, before I start sharing many of my financial tips and insights, I'd like to share with you a few of the principles that got me from that poor village in China to my successful life as a financial advisor in the US. I call them my 7 Guiding Principles, and I use them every day to keep myself on the path of a happy and successful life.
From my earliest days, I yearned to see the sky from different places all over the globe. I was born in the village of Xintian, which is translated, New Skies. Traveling the world was a pie-in-the-sky dream for a young girl in a poor village in The People’s Republic of China, where we had neither the money to take a vacation to the next town nor the political freedom to leave the country, but I still looked at a map and said, “Someday I will travel around the world.” GUIDING PRINCIPLE 1 - Dare to Dream
We had very few toys, but we had plenty of trees to climb. We made kites using old newspapers. We didn’t have glue, so we used sticky rice as glue and then tied the kites with thin strips of bamboo. Necessity, they say, is the mother of invention, which was why, from a very young age, I learned to respond to circumstances by being inventive and adaptable. Today, even the most deliberate and best-laid plans need some flexibility. Always be adaptable. GUIDING PRINCIPLE 2 - Be Adaptable
I was fortunate to be born from two teachers. My mother was top of her class and had ambitions to go to college, even though sending a girl to college was very unusual in those days when society favored boys over girls. Her determination to get an education paved the way for me to later realize my dreams. Her pivotal decision to forge ahead with her schooling would eventually get our family out of the paddy fields and ultimately allow me to become the successful financial services business owner I am today. GUIDING PRINCIPLE 3 - Respect Education
Because my father had to remain two hours away to teach in his assigned territory, my maternal grandmother lived with us to help my mother, who had a full-time job as an English teacher, raise her children. As a result, my grandmother greatly influenced me. I helped her grow vegetables and raise chickens for eggs. Eggs were a precious food, so much so that when I received a perfect score on an exam, my grandmother rewarded me with two eggs. Winning those eggs taught me a valuable lesson at a young age; it’s important to set goals. The night before a new school year, I would lie awake setting goals. GUIDING PRINCIPLE 4 - Set Goals
When I was eight years old, my parents moved to a bigger village called Lankou. They were finally able to work in the same school, and I was finally able to see my father every day. There we had running water and electricity. For the first time, I saw a glimpse of modernity, and I wanted more. Four years later, at twelve years old, I got my wish when we made an even more transformative move to the city of Shenzhen. My parents spent two years applying for jobs in Shenzhen. Opportunities were few in China and not to be squandered. From this experience, I learned the importance of meticulous and deliberate preparation in order to be in a position to grasp an opportunity when it arose. GUIDING PRINCIPLE 5 - Meticulously prepare for every single thing
In the early 1980s, people called Chinese politician Deng Xiaoping “the architect” of a new brand of thinking that combined socialist ideology with pragmatic market economy. He made Shenzhen the first Special Economic Zone (SEZ) in China. My parents could see that Shenzhen was the place to be, but regulations within the education system as well as government control made it very difficult to move. It wasn’t enough to plead that the move would be good for you; you had to convince those in authority that the move would be good for others too. My mother had majored in Russian in college but never had a single Russian student. However, having this language expertise made her application stand out, so she persisted until she convinced someone that she had a unique skill set that justified her move to the city. GUIDING PRINCIPLE 6 - Seize Opportunities
As a teenager, I began reading everything I could by Sanmao, a Taiwanese writer also known as Echo Chan, who wrote books about her travel experiences in over fifty countries. As a citizen of Taiwan, she was free to travel, unlike a Chinese citizen from mainland China. I was so inspired by her life that, not only was my childhood desire to travel the world fueled by her adventures, but I also took her name as my middle name when I came to the United States. GUIDING PRINCIPLE 7 - Value the wisdom of others
These principles keep me on a solid foundation and heading in a positive direction in my life. Look for opportunities every day apply even just 1 or 2 of the principles and you’ll see positive changes in your life. In my next blog, I want us to dive a little deeper and examine your own personal assets, your personal strengths, and traits. We will also discuss some common financial problems.